REASON 1: WHY COUPLES CHEAT

1. FORCED OR TRAPPED INTO MARRIAGE: Couples cheat on each other when one of them has a feeling of being forced or trapped into the marriage against his or her wish. Probably due to unwanted pregnancy, or an arranged ‘arrangee’ marriage where there is actually no genuine love and commitment, this might likely be a reason for either of them to cheat on one another in the relationship. As much as parental advice is important and pastoral counseling is good, and while friendly advice is nice, when it comes to decision making; your own will should be paramount. God who has the final authority over our lives still respect our will. It is wrong to marry someone against your wish or to be married into an arranged marriage. As much as parents want the best for their children when it comes to marriage, it is best to prayerfully guide and help them make the right choice respecting their will. Be man enough to make decision on the choice of your marriage partner, it will go a long way to stabilize your marriage and help you both to weather the storm of life together.