Why couples cheat on each other- No 3 reason

3. SHARE CURIOSITY: This sends some spouse to the banking hall of cheating. Curiosity they say kills the cat, this is an instance where a partner wants to out-rightly try out something new, at times it might be for the fun of it or, just to fulfill curiosity and some times to prevent boredom. Most times spouses do not just get curious un-necessarily, or deliberately want to cheat on their partner, it might just be because their other partner is not being sensitive to their sexual desires, cravings and needs and out of boredom want to try out something new, something spicy, something tasty, just to experience some fun and get out from the daily routine of having sex only in the bed-room with the light out on the same bedspread and the same [missionary] position. I’m sure you might want to laugh this statement off thinking it is not enough reason for a partner to cheat on themselves, you will be shocked to hear the agony in the voice of some spouses after the deed has being done and the worst has caught up on them.

Spouses should not take themselves for granted thinking ‘once married, ever-committed’. Ideally, our spouse should be committed to us after marriage but this is not a criterion for us to assume that we should neglect our sexual responsibilities. With the erroneous belief that all is well; the monotony that arises from taking each other for granted most times lead to spouses cheating on themselves. Do not leave your marriage life to chances; what goes up do not necessarily come down some times. The law of gravity says what goes up must come down, but when the law of aerodynamics came it says what goes up stays up.

SOLUTION.
What we are saying in essence is, be a sensitive lover; be able to code and decode your partner, learn ways to spice up your marriage bed, look for avenue to keep the flame of romance, seduction, friendliness, and newness burning; marriage is sweet do not lose your partner to insensitivity.

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