6. Discouragement: due to the fact that one of the partners is a hard- to- please or difficult individual. Sometimes such a partner is not ready to change in spite of all the effort of the other party. For instance, when the attitude of the wife makes the husband feel less like a man and he wants to prove to himself and his wife; he may sometimes fight back by cheating on her. Or in a situation where the attitude of the husband makes the woman lose confidence in herself, maybe she has always being abused publicly, she has never been appreciated, her dressing is never noticed or her looks commended on. She may want to be positively noticed just for once, she may desire to seek for attention outside the home by falling prey to any outside admirer, such wives could secretly cheat on their husbands just because of the need to be appreciated. A major solution is to discuss your observation with your partner.

7. Temptation. Husbands that cannot wisely, and maturely handle the opposite sex most time fall victim of temptation that normally leads to cheating on their wives. Everybody is being tempted one way or the other, it is left for us as couples to make up our mind on either to have, hold and keep our marriage or become a victim in this area. Most time, couples will save our marriage if we are sincere about the temptation we face and if we honestly share them with our partners. Do not argue that your partner will misunderstand you, handle it wisely, and let your spouse be your best friend and confidant.

SOLUTION
For instance, if you as a husband are being unduly chased by another female colleague at the office or a female customer and you notice she is too close for comfort, you can make your wife handle her calls, text messages or visits, this will definitely send a message to her that she is an intruder. Besides, proudly display your wife’s picture and family picture anywhere, any time. Talk beautifully well about her, let her and not the secretary follow you for most occasions and immediately make your stand known to people about your relationship. If you cannot proudly display your wife’s picture due to one short coming or the other on her side please upgrade her to your level, your marriage is worth fighting for because, it’s going to be your security at old age.

Beware of un-due closeness and friendliness with the opposite sex leading to some irresistible temptations; you are still flesh and blood. This also goes to the wife, do not be un-duly attracted to another man; if you must seduce a man, do seduce your husband. Do not fall prey to being over- flattered by another man, it may lead to some irresistible temptation. Couples who ignorantly leave their home to chances thinking all is well; may not be doing a good job by being over-confident about issues relating to their marriage.