reasons why couples cheat: 3 more reasons

8. Pressure of negative influence. Weak willed partner who cannot take decision by themselves without either consulting their friends or family may invariably fall into the hand of bad friends and wrong advisers. They may end up yielding to the pressure of negative influence and start cheating on their partners. Show me your friend and I know who you are, also, evil communication corrupt good manners. The best friend of a married woman should not be a single lady or a divorcee that is proud to be one. Also, a married man’s best friend should not be a divorcee or a single father. They can only send out the wrong influence on you consciously or unconsciously. Watch out for friends.

9. Infertility. Infertility, due to health problems such as low sperm count, sexually transmitted diseases leading to pelvic inflammatory diseases [PID], uterine tumour or growth, or ovarian tumour or some infertility-oriented problems may cause cheating in some marriages. Infertility can be due to spiritual problems, and sometimes either of the party may be unwilling to wait any longer. You first need to identify the problem first, is it physical or spiritual? What medical advice have you sought? It can some times be due to your past history especially for women who may have aborted or do such things in the past. It is not a time to fight because there is nothing that God cannot do. Mutually agree on how you can resolve the problem, or go for child adoption or be involved in some other ways to bring up other peoples children.

10. Long separation :Extreme distant relationship, or marriage by correspondence or through phone calls, allowing time of separation to stretch too long may bring temptation in to the life of one or either of the spouses thereby leading to cheating. A man is to cleave to his wife is the first law of marriage. When you are separated from your wife or when you are working in different locations such that you only meet your wife once or twice in a year, then you are inviting the devil to be your partner. If this can be avoided, please avoid it. The pressure of work and creating a future that may not exist for the two of you is not enough reason to be separated for too long. We are still human.